The One Night Stands of the Pick Up Artist II
By Vin DiCarlo on Jul 22, 2008 in Dating
First of all, you can’t always get the hottest woman in the venue to go home with you for a one-night stand.
You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.
But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn’t always true but is generally the case.
Another thing that you can spot that a woman is looking for attention is when she is being so loud and animated.
Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you’ll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.
These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.
Now when you approach, take it easy – don’t go in full-steam running your clever routines and your cocky frame control stuff.
A simple “hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. It’s just have to be social, delicate and showing that you are interested in meeting them.
To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This is against her “rules” and will force her to keep you at a distance. You’re also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.
So before that thing happen, you have to remove some of your overt sensual intention and try not to let her know that you are trying to pick her up.
You have to be willing to let go of controlling the situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating appropriately.
It may sound counter intuitive, but that’s how it works.
You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.
Some won’t, but some will, and that’s why it’s key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.
I know you don’t what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.
That’s a HUGE waste of time.
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