A friend once described his recent break up as “infernal”. And I am pretty convinced that a lot of readers will confirm his experience. There is something different with break ups. They can make even the most confident individuals reassess their inner selves and move even the toughest man to shed a few tears.

Immediately after a break up, people will be giving you their solicited or unsolicited advice and most of them will include the motherhood statements of “it’s just not meant to be” or “move on” but all these lines won’t do anyone good.

But these often go through deaf ears because you only want to get your ex girlfriend back.

There are no hard and fast rules that will make you get your ex girlfriend back.

Everything involves great ounce of patience and hard work in order for you to get your ex girlfriend back. But because women tend to be more forgiving then men, making up may not be far ahead.

It is but normal for former lovers to keep a respectable distance from each other immediately after a break up. Seriously, would you find the courage in your heart to call up the person who just broke your heart?

Another thing, there’s going to be that air of awkwardness that will deter anyone of you from picking up that phone. Not to mention being labeled as desperate.

Nonetheless, the rules all change when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Once you decide to go through this path, you need to be the first one to reach out.

With the technology that we have now, sending friendly text messages is enough to make her warm up to you again. I am not suggesting sending her poems but casual messages are enough to keep you in her radar.

Lastly, if you want to be in her “maybe” list and not in her “exes: do not resuscitate” list, then always be thoughtful enough to remember all special dates which includes birthdays and the holidays.

Women can never resist being remembered. They have that innate desire to hold a special place in any man’s heart.

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